It’s the number one thing every husband wants from his wife, and sometimes the most challenging thing for a wife to give him. Why is that? I am sure you have heard about the importance of being a respectful wife, but what you haven’t heard is how it works to your advantage. If you are a respectful wife, your husband will absolutely adore you and treat you like a queen! Respect is more that just choosing your words carefully. It is also about your actions and behaviors. Ultimately, if implemented regularly, it is respect that will build a stronger marriage.
Practice Being a Respectful Wife in Daily Life
Good communication in any relationship is key. Respectful communication in a marriage is paramount. Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” It is very true, that the way we speak to each other can either build us up or tear us down. Some people even believe that speaking kindly to their plants make them grow better while negative energy causes them to wither. Think about what harsh words and harsh tones do to your husband! Women want to feel beautiful and desired. Men want to be respected. Those soft, kind, respectful words make him feel like a man and make him desire you even more. It’s a win, win situation! Everyday, practice speaking to your husband in a respectful tone.
In addition to your tone, consider ways of showing respect through actions and behaviors. For example, ask him to weigh-in with his opinion on certain things before you move forward with a decision, and LISTEN to his response. Another good way to show respect through actions and behaviors is to let him speak without interrupting. I love to see when a man is able to sit quietly while his wife talks and vice versa. It always comes across as so loving and respectful. One of the most important ways to show respect through behavior is to never belittle him in anyway, especially in front of others. None of us are perfect, so even if it happens in a moment of anger, apologize immediately.
Build a Strong Marriage Through Respect
Like I mentioned in my previous article, men find a respectful wife very sexy. Believe it or not, respect can lead to deeper love and intimacy in a marriage. I respect my husband because I love him, and he respects me because he loves me. Because of that mutual respect, we know that we would never use our words to intentionally hurt one another. Our marriage is the ultimate safe space. This is how respect in marriage can also lead to greater trust and a stronger bond between husband and wife.
A respectful wife is like a treasure to a husband. Proverbs 31:10 states, “Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies.” He will not let anyone damage her or treat her carelessly. He will cherish her forever. There is nothing a husband would not do for a respectful wife. A marriage built on respect will be strong and long lasting.
Here are a few tips to remember for a stronger more respectful marriage:
- Speak to your husband in a respectful tone.
- Show respect through your actions and behaviors.
- Use mutual respect to make your marriage a safe space.
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Blessings!
[…] God to bless my marriage. I pray that my marriage will produce fruit. Help me, oh Lord, to be the respectful wife that you have called me to be. I pray that my words and my heart toward my husband would be gentle […]