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“He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord.” – Proverbs 18:22
Married life is unquestionably busy, especially, when you throw a couple kids into the mix. Nevertheless, it is important to maintain a certain level of sex appeal for your husband. It is unfortunate that sexiness in Christian marriage is not a topic that is discussed enough in Christendom. The world is always talking about and showing us its version of sexiness. This disparity leaves many Christian wives feeling like sexiness is sinful. However, within a Christian marriage, this could not be further from the truth.
In this article, I am going to show you how you can have a sexy Christian marriage. By implementing a few simple things, your husband will not be able to resist you.
1. Be Mindful of Your Physical Appearance
The first way to have a sexy Christian marriage is to mind your appearance. The truth is, whether we like it or not, men are very visual creatures. In Christian marriage, wives should do their best to appease this character trait in their husband. Please do not misunderstand me. I am not saying women should strive for a certain “ideal” body type, but I am encouraging us to not “let ourselves go”. Even after marriage and kids, the woman you have always been is still there. Hold on to her.
We don’t want to look a hot mess every time he sees us at home. Wear a cute outfit around the house every once in awhile. While we want to be modest outside of the house, this is your chance to be a little more revealing. Style your hair. Find time to fit in a couple workouts each week. A good man will love you no matter what, but every husband desires an attractive wife.
2. Use Physical Touch
Next, ladies, you should be touching your husband in ways that only you can. This tip is all about being sensual outside of the bedroom. For example, you could gently rub his chest or back underneath his shirt or give him a scalp massage. Hold hands while you watch TV together on the sofa. Showing affecting through physical touch will definitely take your Christian marriage up a notch.
3. Be a Flirt
Related to physical touch is flirting. Whether you are out on a date night or in the house, flirt with your husband! Look at him like only you can. Make him blush with a wink in his direction. Tell him how attractive he is. Be just as flirtatious as you were in the beginning, throughout the entirety of the marriage.
I guarantee that this simple change will make a huge difference. Your husband will only have eyes for you. He will have no need to look elsewhere. Without the flirtatious vibes, your Christian marriage will be dull, routine, boring and bland. Keep it spicy!
4. Set the Mood in the Bedroom
Next on the list, is the bedroom. You should do your best to maintain a clean, peaceful environment. Avoid clutter so that the room feels inviting. I use flowers, scented candles, and clean linens to inspire intimacy. My husband and I love these Mirabal Microfiber Sheet Set by Andover Mills from Wayfair. They are super soft and really affordable if you catch them on sale! Long story short, you want your bedroom to feel like a getaway for you and your husband.
5. Sleep Naked
After you have set the mood, I have one more bedroom tip. Sleeping naked is a way for both husband and wife to feel completely free, connected and unashamed with one another. I liken this to how it was for Adam and Eve in the garden initially. Feeling the warmth of one another’s naked body is another way to bond in the bedroom. For those of us who have had children, we are likely already familiar with the benefits of skin-to-skin contact. Another benefit of sleeping naked with your husband is that it reminds him that you are his. No one else has this privilege but him.
6. Show Him Respect and Listen to Him
This is my last point, but arguably the most important. Respecting and listening to your husband will make him feel like the man he is. It will boost his confidence and make him love you more. These two actions will by far be the sexiest thing you could do for your husband. If you don’t believe me, ask him! I know it doesn’t quite make sense to us as women, but let me try to put it into perspective. You know how sexy it is when your husband does chores around the house or cooks a meal? That’s what respect and listening does for him. I will talk more about this in my next article.
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